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God Save the Queen

I like to call my history, Heinz 57 Celtic. Throw a dart at a map of the British Isles, and no doubt one of my ancestors came from there. Though I am mostly Scottish and Irish on my mother’s side, my father’s side is 100% Irish, with the exception of a twice-great Grandfather who married a German woman then came to the US. It’s from their line I come from.

So I found myself watching this Olympic games as more like watching a party at a friend’s house, then some event many thousands of miles away. And I found myself cheering for Team GB more often than not, especially as their unprecedented success in the equestrian events came to light.

As a Celtic Wiccan, I loved Glastonbury Tor in the opening ceremonies. As an equestrian, in my mind, I jumped every jump and raced across every cross country jump. Mostly, I think this Olympic games activated my Celtic DNA, for I found myself invoking Cerridwen and Epona. In the rock songs playing during both opening and closing ceremonies, I heard echoes of Taliesn the bard. Merlin’s magic might have been more spectacular than the fireworks show, but would it have been as beautiful?

Britain might not be seen as an athletic nation, but it is one with a rich and vibrant history. And yes, after these games, I think we can agree that Britain is an athletic nation, too. But unlike the Beijing Olympics, where many of us felt as if curtains were being drawn back on a culture many of us know little about, these London Olympics felt like old friends returning. Yes, we thought, we remember that bad, or that country, and in a news cycle dominated by austerity and the “Eurozone”, for two weeks in August, Great Britain showed us power, majesty, triumph, beauty, and inspiration.

And that was a exactly as it should be.

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5 Ways To Regain Your Summer Mojo

I love summertime for regaining your equilibrium and your mojo. There’s something about being outside, looking into a beautiful blue sky, feeling the warm sun on your face that makes you just darn happy to be alive. I can close my eyes and tilt my face to the sky and feel the warmth radiating into my body. All of a sudden I’m connected with the larger world around me. I feel the universal energy and I know it exists.

Need to regain your mojo? Here are five tips for summer.

1. Get outside. Even if you’re sitting on your porch or on the ground, simply getting outside helps to reconnect us with the outdoors and with the sun. We can draw upon the solar energy to refuel our own batteries, and the great thing is, within our lifetimes, solar energy is limitless. (Sure, the sun will go supernova in several hundreds of thousands of years, but we don’t have to worry about that.)

2. Get moving. Go for a walk. Work in your garden. Get your body moving to help get the energy out of your head and down into your body. You can use this to connect with yourself as well as ground.

3. Enjoy other’s happiness. Go to the park with your dog or your kids and watch them run and have fun outdoors. Enjoy the kids being out of school and playing on your street. Even watching a bird or a rabbit moving through your yard can be enjoyable. Add a bird bath, watch the birds splash and play. Smiles are contagious.

4. Find your own happiness. If there’s an activity you like, even if you’re forced indoors by the summer heat (such as a runner who works out in a gym instead of the sidewalk), make sure you keep up with the activity. Soon enough the weather will turn and you can go back outside again.

5. Get wet! Running through a sprinkler, playing in the pool, visiting the ocean, or a water park are all great ways to enjoy the summer heat. Water reduces stress on your joints, so walking in the water is easier for those with disabilities, even as it provides a greater resistance.

Enjoy the summer and feel your mojo return with the summer heat!

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Frustration To Gratitude: Shopping, Thankfulness, and Me

Today’s Friday, also known as “grocery shopping day” in our household. Or, “another week, another bucket of cat litter” works, too. Either way, I picked up just my billfold and my grocery list and headed to the store. I finished my shopping (I self-checkout), went to pay, and didn’t have my debit card. I think we’ve all done this a time or two. Thought we’d had our debit card but either had taken it out to make an online purchase and didn’t quite get it back in our billfold, or had it slip out of our billfold into our purse (which is what happened to me). I could have gotten mad. I was hot, sweaty, and I really didn’t want to redo the shopping.

However, I had some cash in my billfold, almost enough to cover the purchase. So I explained the situation to the self-checkout lady, and we set three purchases aside for me to come back and get. I paid with cash, took the groceries home, grabbed my purse (yep, there was the debit card. My billfold doesn’t quite close sometimes…grr!), then went back and finished my purchases, then, took the juice I’d bought for mom over to her house.

As I said, I could have gotten angry. It was hot; I was thinking I’d be home in an hour and could get back to work. But you know what, I didn’t get angry.

I told the universe these things instead:

THANK YOU for making sure I hadn’t taken that cash to the bank to deposit yet.

THANK YOU for the fact that I was looking for shoes for my partner, so I only had to leave behind a couple of things.

THANK YOU for the short drive I have back home.

THANK YOU for the nice lady in the checkout aisle to help.

THANK YOU that I really don’t punch a time clock, so can take the extra time this needs.

THANK YOU that my partner realized I was home and could help me carry in the bags of groceries.

When I got home, it was, “THANK YOU for my debit card being right on top of my purse’s contents, so I could be assured that it was where I thought it was.”

When I went back to Walmart it was, “THANK YOU for the items sitting there ready for me.” and “THANK YOU for being able to check out so quickly.”

I went to mom’s house. “THANK YOU that mom had time to get some things together so I could help her.” and THANK YOU that I could buy mom an extra jug of juice.

Then I returned home to THANK YOU for making that go so smoothly and well.

And I did it all with a smile on my face. That’s how I turned what could have been a frustrating afternoon into a very powerful lesson of gratitude and thankfulness.

THANK YOU universe for this lovely reminder.

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Spring Blog Hop: Oestara Eggs

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My partner's cat Drusilla, supervising our Oestara egg coloring project. Sadly, Dru passed beyond the Rainbow Bridge a couple of years ago. She is dearly missed.

Oestara is the season of new life. It’s bursting out all over. From the tulips and the crocus surging through the ground to the new lambs and baby chicks in the farmer’s yards. In our own yard, we have lemon balm, catnip, lavender, tulips, daffodils, yarrow, some flower I bought on clearance, but don’t know what it is, and the 99 cent mums I bought at Wal-mart about four years ago that keep coming back. This is the time of year when the world is painted with new life.

But so, too, are relationships renewed. One of the traditions my partner and I have is to dye eggs. It’s silly, I suppose, that grown adults could have so much fun with vinegar-based dye from clearance rack purchased kits. But I wasn’t allowed to dye eggs as a kid (too messy), so we had to settle with those shrink-wrap things instead. One of the first decisions I made when I moved out on my own was to dye eggs, and it’s been a source of amusement to me, and to my family who benefits from the colored eggs, as well.

So it’s a time of year, about two months after my birthday, where we can both stop what we’re doing and make time to do something totally fun, totally frivolous, and totally for ourselves. We might watch movies or have dinners other times out of the year, but when we paint our hard-boiled eggs we’re not just painting the eggs, we’re also painting our relationship with new life. It’s a renewal for us, a fun one, that we can think of and enjoy for several days afterward as we enjoy the eggs.

However, on a more serious note for us this year, it’s also a time to paint our lives with new colors. A career change, somewhat unexpected, happened at the first of March, and I’ve been learning how to move forward and make the transition to wholly self-employed. It’s new colors because I’m no longer working third shift; I can see the sun and the flowers. New colors because my fibromyalgia is very happy about the change and not flaring as bad as it had. New colors because of the smile on my face and the sun-warmed glow in my cheeks.

There’s new things happening every moment it seems this time of year. Lives are changing, growing, adjusting. Plants are growing, this year a lot earlier than normal. We’re dying eggs, whether to celebrate Oestara, Easter, or just for fun! Planting flowers and gardens will create a palate of color in our yards. It might seem as if there’s a lot of colors and too much to see.

And while Mother Nature is hurrying up, we don’t have to join her. We can slow down and take time to enjoy the new things that are happening. We can pause to enjoy a bunch of daffodils blooming several weeks early and admire the sunny, yellow glow. The red-breasts of robins will put a smile on our faces, reminding us that spring is well on its way, if not actually here. Green grass and green leaves tell us that we made it through another dreary winter. Blue skies provide warmth and lengthening days. And in my house, when we dye an Oestara egg orange, we are fondly reminded of a cat we once had who was that exact shade, and just about built like an egg. We’re also reminded of new life, for we have our “kittens” (about ages 3-5 now) who paint our lives with neon-colored catnip mice, and lots of laughter. And they don’t supervise the Oestara Egg dying nearly as well as Druscilla did.

 

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Visualize Abundance

abundance vacation beach wealth time leisure I’ve been doing some reading and some work on abundance lately and there was discussion about envisioning your life the way you want it to be. Now that sounds easy…until you go to try it. And I realized, for all my talk about the future, about what I want, about what I’m working for, it’s dang hard to try and picture yourself there.

But you have to!

Close your eyes. Find that perfect scene. Where you are doing what you want to do, living the life you want to live. Even if you don’t know all the details, like the logistics, scheduling, or anything, simply allow yourself to feel those emotions. Feel the freedom from having to worry about time or money. Feel how joyous you are because you get to make decisions regarding your life. Allow yourself to relax into the moment knowing that the things you don’t know will be filled in by the universe. And then what do you do?

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Find Allies Along The Road

friend, support, coachFollowing up on my “stuck” post, I wanted to talk about finding allies along the road. Sometimes, when we feel stuck or as if we aren’t moving forward, then we can feel as if we’re alone. Even if we know we have supportive friends and family around us, we can feel alone.

The trick is to find allies.

In fact, even the most reclusive of us most likely have more allies on our journey than we think. And, when we reach out we find that we have many more than we’d ever dreamed.

So how do you find allies?

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Inspirational Writing

This Divine Night by Mary CaelstoWhen it comes to the romance genre, I call what I write “pagan inspirational romance”. There really isn’t an inspirational romance genre just for pagans. I guess you could say I’ve created one. But inspirational writing is more than just a named genre.

What does that mean?

Considering that we’re all different, being an inspirational writer means writing any number of things. To the business person, a book on leadership techniques can be inspirational. To someone who gardens, a book on container gardening or new compost practices can inspire beauty and solace in the garden. If a reader dreams of the future, then a great science fiction book that sheds light on our current society might be inspirational. And, if you’re looking for a romance novel where spirituality plays an important role, well, then perhaps if you’re Wiccan or pagan, then my romance novels inspire.

I think of myself as an inspirational writer in all that I do. Because I write across multiple genres, and a lot of nonfiction as evidenced by my nonfiction books and these blog posts, as well as articles, I’d like to think that the writing I do inspires someone…sometime. Hopefully.

And as writers, many of us want to touch readers. Sure, there might be people who “do it for the money”, but honestly, in any creative endeavor, if the love isn’t there, then neither is the inspiration. When we do what we love–no matter the profession–we’re inspiring people.

Think about all the blogs you read, the people who post on Facebook, the articles, the magazines, and yes, the books. Every single person is an inspirational writer. Hopefully they know it, and if not, tell them! Because who knows, they next inspirational writer might be you!

 

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